Boys get this. Number one rule of womanhood – we want to feel special. So how do you do that? As a client you’re supposed to be the one who feels special but conversely you also want the escort you’re meeting up with to feel special too. It’s a bit of a conundrum wouldn’t you say?
But then, it’s hard to fight nature. Men have always seen themselves in that role of protector and I suppose it’s innate when you think back to those Neolithic days. Women were always the nurturers, the ones who cared rather than provided for.
Is that why my clients regularly turn up with gifts for me as one of the incall escorts? Because they’re providing? In the past month or so I’ve received a beautiful Tiffany broach, a pair of the softest leather gloves you could ever hope to run your finger tips over (and in), four separate bouquets of roses (two red and two white) and a beautiful bottle of the most tongue tinglingly tantalising Crystal champagne (oh and two crystal glasses in which to sip it because we were picnicking at the time).
Receiving gifts is lovely, of course, and I’d never refuse them. But a compliment on my eyes or my legs is just as nice – and sometimes more appreciated. Just because I work as one of the incall and outcall escorts in London, it doesn’t mean to say that I’m not immune to the odd piece of well-deserved adulation. And if you want to read me some well-chosen and carefully nuanced poetry well, just try and peel me back of the ceiling!
Better still, I had one client who was a gifted artist and produced beautiful water colours of the places we’d visited together as a special keepsake for my apartment. Now that really does it for me – someone who wants to record special time spent together. Of course not everyone’s an artist but everyone has something special about them – a gift or talent that they can share with others. Spread the talent – don’t go keeping it to yourself is what I say.
