As an English escort, a large part of my job involves making my clients feel comfortable and find a way to relax into the somewhat unusual and potentially awkward situation in which they have found themselves. I have become rather masterful at this over the years but one particularly shy and anxiety filled guy comes to mind. He was certainly the type of person you would describe as a stereotypical computer geek and despite being in his early thirties, clearly hadn’t had a great deal of experience or interaction with the opposite sex. Very shy and reserved guys certainly make my job more of a challenge but for me drawing them out of their shell is also a great part of the fun.
My tactic for this guy was to keep him entertained and busy enough that he begins to forget his anxiety and fear of the situation. I am a natural people person so making chitchat comes to me like a breeze. Drawing him into the conversation was a challenge, so I tried to figure out his real interest and passions in life in order to get him onto comfortable ground. I began talking about some of the local history of London and this seemed to catch his attention. We were spending the date in a hotel room and as I kept the conversation flowing I slowly began to increase the amount of physical contact between us. Starting with the occasional tap on the thigh, I gradually allowed my hand to linger on him for longer and longer and it wasn’t long before we were able to progress to the main event.
