It’s a question which comes up every now and again from friends of friends not in the escort business – ‘Do I date my clients?’ Let me point out, they don’t ask me that question direct to my face. That’s because they don’t know who I am. Rather, they ask my friends (who already know the answer).
So… tell us, I hear you cry impatiently dear reader. Well, the answer would be NO, absolutely not. Like in plenty of other walks of life it’s not a good idea to mix business with pleasure.
This is for a number of reasons and jealousy of course is one of them. Even if your new partner was once a client himself and completely understands how you work there will, without a doubt, come a time when he will want you to stop seeing your other clients so that he becomes the main man in your life.
Of course in asking this, he’s demanding you give up your career and the lifestyle you’ve been living – and enjoying – for a number of years now. When it comes down to it, it’s a very big ask (even if he offers to support you financially until you find another career).
And anyway, who wants to be supported by someone else? The independence you have, whether you’re with a Cheap Escort Agency or a high-class venture, is worth a lot and not something you’ll want to give up willingly I bet. In fact, I know so.
And anyway, doesn’t it feel good making your own money and paying your way in the world? It leads to a feeling of confidence and, in my own case, actually made me become a more assertive person. And escort jobs do pay well. Money has never been as issue for me since I became an escort. I simply don’t have to worry about it which is, of course, rather nice!
Another drawback with dating clients is that if you gave up escorting for a partner, you’d have to get used to having your fun with just one man, rather than the interesting variety of new clients and on-going ones that you’ve been used to for so long. Can you see yourself being monogamous again or, as I know it would in my own case, all just get a little too boring?
